We as human beings get distracted. It happens to all of us, we lose focus on what we want or who we are or what we love. SO how do we get focused again, maybe this will help.
Surround yourself with people that support, encourage, and push you to be the best you can be. The people we spend our life with can determine what we want, they influence us whether we recognize that or not. So surround yourself with someone who makes you laugh uncontrollably, or someone who makes you think about the little things, someone who loves all sides of you. If you put these people in your life, you can stay focused on becoming the person you want to be because you have that constant support system.
Find what you love and go after it with your whole heart. We only have one life, so it makes no sense to spend it doing something that doesn’t make your heart happy. So find what you love and if you put your whole being into that thing, you will be able to make a living doing what you love. I love the quote ” do what matters and it’ll matter”. Sometimes we find ourselves doing things that leave us feeling empty inside, so find something that matters.
Stay in the moment. It is so easy for us to worry about next week or yesterday or our failures etc. When we should be focusing on the RIGHT NOW. You aren’t living in the future or the past, you don’t know what is going to happen tomorrow or next week, so WHY WORRY. We only have the current, right this instant moments to experience life. We don’t experience life in past and future. SO take a breath and focus on what is going on around you now, the people you are with now, the experiences you are getting to have NOW. and i can guarantee you will find happiness and clarity.
Trust in the Big Man upstairs. God has made you who you are for a reason, he has giving you gifts that make you unique, he will give to you a fulfilling and meaningful life when you completely trust his plan.When we have self doubt, such as I’m not pretty enough, skinny enough, funny enough, we have to remind ourselves that who we are is exactly who we are suppose to be and if we strive to be the person God created us to be we will find a contentment inside ourselves.God has a beautiful life planned for you, just trust in him and it will be fulfilled!
So live moment to moment. Surround yourself with Love. and Trust in the Lord.